In the traditional Chinese Almanac, "Pre-building a Tomb" as "Building a Grave for the Living" (开生坟 - Kai Sheng Fen) refers to a specific day marked on the Almanac suitable for funeral-related matters such as burials, relocating graves, or building new tombs. However, the term "Kai Sheng Fen" is more commonly used to refer to a special funeral custom—the act of building a tomb in advance for a living person.
Building a Tomb for the Living: In some regions, especially in certain southern provinces, there is a custom of building tombs for healthy, living elders. This act is called "Kai Sheng Fen" (Opening a Live Grave). This does not mean the elder is about to pass away, but rather it is out of preparation for the future and respect for family tradition.
Auspicious Meaning: The act of "Kai Sheng Fen" is viewed as an auspicious symbol in many places, meaning longevity, peace, and family harmony. Through this method, family members express their beautiful wishes for their elders.
In traditional Chinese culture, the concept of life and death differs from that of the West. Chinese people value the idea of "fallen leaves returning to their roots" (Luo Ye Gui Gen), believing that a person should have a proper resting place after death. Therefore, preparing a cemetery in advance for oneself or family members is not only a practical consideration but also a spiritual sustenance.
Site Selection: Choosing a Feng Shui treasure land (Bao Di) as a future resting place, usually determined by a Feng Shui master based on the geographical environment and personal numerology.
Breaking Ground: After selecting an auspicious day and time, construction begins. This process needs to follow certain rituals and rules.
Erecting a Tombstone: Sometimes, a stone tablet is erected in front of the tomb, engraved with the name of the tomb owner and information about their descendants.
Worship Ceremony: After completion, a simple worship activity will be held to pray for ancestors to bless the family with peace and health.
With the development of society and changes in concepts, the custom of "Kai Sheng Fen" is no longer popular in many places, but this tradition is still preserved in some rural areas. It is not merely a material preparation but also carries profound cultural connotations and social functions, such as strengthening family cohesion and inheriting the culture of filial piety.
In summary, "Kai Sheng Fen" is a manifestation of the philosophy of life and death in traditional Chinese culture, reflecting people's respect for life and their positive attitude towards future uncertainties.
